When I was a little girl before my father pased away he used to always end our conversations with " You're not promised tomorrow, enjoy life to the fullest but not at the expense of others" To my friends and family if you are happy with yourself and the relationships you've built then cherish them, but not at the expense of another. Take time to love the people you have in your life instead of hurting them. If you think about every time you said " I never meant to hurt you" instead of " I never meant for you to find out" you could save a lot of heartaches and pain. If you're not happy don't ruin someone elses happiness. Life is not promised tomorrow, so don't take someone elses life/love/happiness for granted. To all my friends and family I LOVE YOU all and for those who know me, know I don't use those words in vain.